Poly ponderings

[tamidon]

So i'm starting to worry about stuff before they even happen. This great guy I'm dating, who makes me really happy, doesn't have a primary. Now, he's not looking for one since his job is stressful and lousy hours, and it's kinda cool for him to be with someone who isn't expecting him to change that. However, I worry that he does deserve a primary, is a great guy and would be great for him to have a primary, but...what if he does find a primary and the first words out of her mouth are "Ditch the married chick"? The fact that he's never done poly before is affecting what I worry about. He doesn't know any poly folk and isn't likely to anytime soon, and the people he runs into in his life on a regular basis are almost guaranteed to be monogamous. I was so happy that he was so mellow about adjusting to poly life and ideas, never thought I'ld suffer from fears of monogamous women. I think I'm starting to get attached to this guy, and it's making me nervous.

On a lighter note, he's taking me to Foxwoods next week since he got 2 consecutive days off in the middle of the week. Fun fun fun:-)