Gender stuff
So there I ws in Costco just now and for the first time ever Adira was mistaken for a boy....twice. I'm surprised at my recoil from it,why should I care what they think?, but I still don't like it. Maybe it's tied into the being pissed she mangled her hair in the first place, requiring the buzz cut, but still it shouldn't matter. She loves it being short and not having to brush it anymore.